Every year, a week before 13th july is very
confusing for me. I do lots of thinking on what to gift my hubby on his
birthday and get
various suggestions from buying him some accessory or giving him a surprise. But as
I know , all these things would just
not do justice to what he is and what he means to me. Many ask me
does it really not matter that in our relationship we don't give surprises or gifts,
and answer is NO. Actually what matters is to know, that you are loved and cared for, and I feel that every day in almost all his actions(I wont be able to comment on whether Jai feels the same) and words(not when we are fighting though). Even if it is as small as making me
walk on the safer side while on the road, or keeping or me last bite of
a tasty dish, or taking me out for cold coffee every other night or buying my favourite flavour of ice-cream for sharing or watching Bollywood movies with me even when he doesn't enjoys or coming home early to spend some time with family or listening
to my endless conversation even when he is very sleepy and list goes on...
So may be on your
birthday, I say all that which I don’t say often, but Mr.Jaisooraj Nambiar, you
know it is true, that my whole world is made up of you.
Jaisooraj Nambiar, as we celebrate your birthday today, I want
to thank you for letting me a part of this beautiful journey with you. And
believe me, it doesn’t seem like growing old, as time is just flying away
without even knowing. Every night, I just thank god for being so kind to me and
ask him to just continue the life I have now. Nothing more than this , nothing
less than this…
This year I have been meeting lots of people who tell me
what all they would like to have in the person they marry. For me I never made
such a list, because even before I understood the qualities my Mr.Right should
be having, I had already found that person in you. So I just wanted to marry
Jaisooraj Nambiar and live the dream I am living now.
In this journey there have been good days, bad days, happy
days, sad days, loving days, fighting days and we have gone through all knowing
a single fact that we care for each other the most, and whatever happens, what
connects us-love, friendship and much more, is a bond forever, a relationship so pious, so truthful and so sacred. I have found a
partner, with who I can just share everything …no lies ever said, no pretence,
just be myself...
I wonder, How do you manage to always make right decisions and
not be influenced by consequences?? How do you always speak truth even if it’s
telling me I am not looking good ?? And to make the most difficult problems of
life, sound simple with clear thinking…How do you manage to keep quite when I excitedly tell you a new found knowledge, which you already have known for
years, and let me feel smarter and more intellectJ…
I don’t know how many would ever realise or would get a chance to understand what
you are, a gem of a person. Was it by chance that God blessed me with you as my life partner or did I really do something nice in my last life to have you, I really don’t
know. All I know, If I was asked that one pledge of marriage that I would like
would come true, is I not for next seven but rest all rebirths would like to be
married to you…(thoda zyada filmy hai, but I love BollywoodJ)
Once again, wishing a best husband and a best father, A very
happy Birthday..Riya & I love you…
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